- Can a 22 year-old guy date a 17 year-old girl without getting charged?
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This question takes place in Australia where this is perfectly legal 2. I legitimately had no idea she was 16 when I asked her out Alright, so, I'm 22 turned 22 in July , over the past few weeks I've been talking to and flirting with a girl that works at a coffee place near I legitimately had no idea she was 16 when I asked her out Alright, so, I'm 22 turned 22 in July , over the past few weeks I've been talking to and flirting with a girl that works at a coffee place near my work; She ticked all my metaphorical boxes - She is from the US with a strong accent I love a US accent , she is pale, has back thigh tattoos and has the same weird love for Dragonball Z that I do.
Can a 22 year-old guy date a 17 year-old girl without getting charged?
Anyway, Last Sunday I mustered up the courage to ask her out for coffee, When I asked she blushed and smiled but didn't answer so I just said I'd leave it with her. I saw her during the week and just acted casually, come friday today she was finishing work and leaving and we got walking and talking, after some exchanges I asked her if she'd given my coffee invitation some thought and she said "As much as I'd like to say yes I don't know if you know but you're 6 years older than me" I was pretty much taken aback, although I hadn't asked her age previously, I made some pretty educated guesses to reach a minimum age of She told me her parents buy her a tattoo every year for her birthday and she has 2 tattoos, I would assume that most people would start tattoos when their 16 at the very earliest and probably closer to 18 really.
But she got her first when she was Anyway, at the end of the conversation today she said "Put me on layby" lay away or whatever you may call it in other countries She turns 17 this year, what I can't figure out is..
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Did the lay-by statement mean ask her when she's 17? Is the age difference thing about my feelings or her feelings? I can't figure out if this is right. As mentioned previously, she is from the US New mexico , I don't know if this kind of relationship is legal where she is from; Her dad is in the military which is why she has moved over here with her parents.
The problem is that I really like her So the main question is, is it wrong for me to ask her out again when she is 17? Are you sure that you want to delete this answer? No not at all! I'm 22 and in college, and I spend a lot of time with people who are I feel like they're relatively mature and intelligent people, too.
But the perspective is just different, whether you call it maturity or not, and I really couldn't see myself even dating a girl who is Even though that's a much smaller gap even. That's so strange, I'm 24 now and I'm not a much different person now from when I was 17 even. Or I don't feel like I am. I'm the same "core" person I was when I was 17, but at 25 I see the world in a completely different way and am much, much smarter. I used to consider myself 16 for many many years but then all of a sudden it dawned on me when I struck up a conversation with a couple of year-olds at a bar said they were 20 initially and noticed the difference.
These were smart year-olds btw, not retarded ones. Anyway, I noticed me perception of myself wasn't really spot on anymore. It's like seeing yourself in a mirror every day and not noticing you get older until you take a look at an old photo of yourself. I'm 38 and I'm almost the exact same retard I was when I was I hang out with engineers in their early to mid-twenties all day, mma and jiu jitsu fighters in their teens to early thirties about six hours a week, and these six and ten-year old kids that call me dad every evening and weekend, and I'm easily the least mature one in the whole bunch.
The outside gets uglier, and I learn some shit from time to time and forget some shit in about equal amounts , but basically I'm the same person. I'd put money on a portrait hanging in his home has aged rapidly, and has warts on its naughty bits. Sure, it makes sense for the 19 year old to want someone older and wiser, but how sad must the 25 year old be to feel adequately challenged by someone barely out of high school? That having been said, a lot of my late 20s female friends swear by the younger guys. More eager to please, easier to mold to be gentlemen, they say.
They have been together 25years now. As some one who once dated at this exact age gap, let me first say to your friend: Also, if he's at all normal, he's fully aware of the social bullshit that comes with all this. I was 17 when I met my husband..
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I thought he was younger and he thought I was older. But I knew immediately he was special and right before our 2nd date, I told my father that when this man asked for my hand in marriage that he had better say yes. My point in all this is that age is irrelevant. When you find the right person the rest doesn't matter. He's certainly wiser than me but for the most part we don't 'feel' our age difference. I know it sounds crazy.. They will be well versed enough in critical thiknig skills that they will be able to make a good decision even at the infantile age of I have a 25 year old friend who is estatic because his girlfriend of a year JUST turned He was bragging to us "Dude, now I can't go to jail for fucking her!
The law is 16 in most states, and 17 in many others. Only a minority of states require And many have exceptions as well. When you're 18, you're "legal". You can smoke, buy lottery tickets, and star in pornographic films. But you can also get in trouble for nailing girls under the age of In some states, the age of consent is as low as 14 or 15, and in others it's 18 I think, I'm not googling around ATM. Someone a little more well-versed please chime in, but basically our "age of consent" laws aren't really universal, and it's easy to get popped with statutory rape if you have sexual relations with someone under Also, about 5 years ago I was at a party when I was in college, and one of my friends who was only 18 had a few girls from our old high school come up, ranging in ages from One of the 15 year olds wound up nailing a 20 year old dude completely consensual, there were witnesses corroborating the story and she wasn't drinking , and when her parents found out they had the guy brought up on all sorts of charges.
Now, in this dude's defense this girl was at a college party, she had a fake ID that said she was 18, and she was hotter than all get-out. Seriously, several dads of my friends had mistaken her for being a MILF when they first saw her. It was unbelievable how hot this girl was at the age of Anyway, the case was dismissed during a pretrial or arraignment when the guy's defense stood up and basically said "Your honor, she was telling everyone she was 18, she was at a college party, she had a fake, and look at her.
If your joke has the potential to ruin someone's life, it's not a joke. My sister started seeing her current bf they've been together 4 years now at age We were all shocked since he had a 14 yrs old kid at that moment. I stopped giving a fuck since she is happy. By definition you can't be a pedophile in that case. For the last millions of years people managed to have kids from 14 as they still do in a lot of poor countries. Even if people don't like truth, people who are into girls who can have kids are not pedophiles. Weird or outdated, could be but "sick"?
Thank you for informing us that your friend wasn't amused at the joke you put on his Facebook Wall. I met her when she was 17 and I was We immediately started dating and have been together ever since. A couple of weeks back we celebrated 4 years of marriage, but we've been together for over 10 years. She was then, and still is, more mature than I am. So take it easy on your friend ok? Well, he's having some jailbait while you sit at your computer and make pictures in MS paint to feel better about yourself.
I'd consider such a thing as very offensive and hurtful to him and his girlfriend. I don't like child abuse and rape jokes though. Pedophilia refers to the sexual preference for prepubescent children, and in most countries 17 is actually over the age of consent. Most people don't care or want to acknowledge the difference. U telling me a 17 yr old cant make decisions for herself? Only in America is there such a thing as statutory rape for people over the age of I find myself wondering if this post is, for the sake of verisimilitude, intentionally written in the style of a 17 year old girl.
At the time of the War of Roses, 12 was the legal age of consent in England, and most people married their daughters within the years range. I took shit in high school being a senior who was dating a freshman. The age gap was about 2. People can be very cruel about these things. I guess it would be situation specific, and I reserve my judgment.
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But I remember being a high school senior looking at freshman and thinking, "most of these look like children. The keyword there is "most".
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The funny thing is that you would have no idea that the girl was younger than me just looking at her and our interactions. Imagine my surprise when I figured out she was 3 years behind me in school after I'd already asked her out. My wife is 13 years older than I am.