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The only way to an INTJ woman's heart is through her head. Nothing else will really impress her. Use proper grammar in the thread title.
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Talfdm thanked this post. Originally Posted by intjonn. Yeah some of that doesn't sound all that INTJ-ish but Anyway make it very clear you are interested in her DO NOT ask her out. Originally Posted by WhiteIris. Originally Posted by andy I tend to agree. Working at a bar? Doesn't sound very INTJish to me.
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What if I go to a different event and this color does not go? Now I do better with nail color but being prettied up is still a hard process for me — but boy do I love looking cute! Like anything else, it depends on the person. This is all to say — if you treat me in an ordinary way, chances are I will be gone before you know it.
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You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Twitter account. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Rule number one and perhaps the most important: Let her come to you. Keep up with your own hobbies and interests. Share this with her if she cares to explore them with you, but having your own set of interests will make you FAR more attractive to her.
She is going to be one interesting gal with an array of interests, it would be nice if you were supportive of her explorations. Do not be intrusive, please refer to rule number one. Respect her wishes about personal time and space. If you have some insight on political-, economical- or system wise that will at least gain you the INTJs respect. That does not mean she is in love with you or that you two have great chemistry. Stay faithful, do what you say.
INTJs live for patterns because patterns help them make accurate decisions. Please refer to 10 for more information on this one. Most INTJs will agree that social expectations, rules, flirting, and dating are dumb rules? Please refer to tip 1. INTJs are probably the most likely type to engage in longterm, serious relationships, because it is often hard for them to build close, intimate relationships, so if you do get close to her….
Getting close to INTJ means getting past their safeguard and that in itself is already an achievement. Getting to this stage also means the INTJ will forego most of the rules stated above to maintain the relationship granted that it makes sense to do so. February 9, February 11, by superfluouss Tags: Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email required Address never made public. I was so happy to find out I wasn't abnormal, just rare.
Now here's an interesting twist. Thanks for this website and I love all the comments. Here's a refinement on the pregnant woman scenario: I agree that I wouldn't let her pregnancy or distress affect how I dealt with her except that I would assess her ability to deal factually with the situation in the light of her "distraction". Others observing might think I was doing that because she was a woman and I could emotionally identify with her, but in fact that would have nothing to do with it.
It's all about ability and capability. Nobody quite understands what I do so they leave me alone to do it. All the deadlines are met and the calculations are correct so I get left in my office to get on with it. In the past I have had jobs which required far more "getting people on my side" and I failed miserably at those. I found that I could have job success only if I was in the right job.
I did very well in an investigative position for a state university. I worked alone with very little supervision because my bosses had no idea how I worked and only wanted results that recovered money for the university. I am currently retired but I work in my parish running one of the largest ministries in the largest parish in our region.
This suits me because, again, I work alone and have very little interference from the church staff. It really is a matter of being in a job where your INTJ mind works to your employers benefit.
Then you are a valuable asset and not a "round peg in a square hole". Unicorn Lady, I am so sorry to hear that but I also had a lifetime of hell at work. I eventually just gave up and have been writing to earn a living. It's not much of a living, but I get by. I've learnt to do with very little, but at least I am not heavily distressed all the time.
If you're 60, depending on which country you live in, you could apply for early retirement. Alternatively, yes apply for disability on the grounds of depression.
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It's veyr hard to get disability in the States, though. Describes me very well. I am almost 60, and have been fired from 12 of the last 15 jobs I have had over 5 year. I do have a bachelors degree. Any ideas for starting over work wise at my age? JS MysMan, oh, I've mastered the social norms, alright. I understand them completely. I just can't comply. It drains me, makes me less focused on what needs to be done, etc. I am now retired, and this is much easier than having to work with people and constantly being distressed because I want to focus on my job and not allaying other people's emotional neediness.
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I do, however, think that a simple explanation along the lines of "Well, I thought doing something practical behind the scenes was my way of contributing Lanouveau - totally agree with your point. I have always been regarded as an ice queen because I deal with other peoples problems in exactly the way you described.
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I loved your point "Asking after her health just sucks up the poor woman's energy, reassuring everyone else," because when my husband had cancer that was exactly what happened. Everyone wanted to co-opt my crisis and talk about my feelings. What I needed them to do was babysit, cook meals and clean my house. Only one friend understood that and did what I needed her to do. She was then the only one that I could actually share my feelings and fears with because I knew that she understood how frightening it was for me to be in a situation that I had absolutely no control over.