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- [INTP] My INTP boyfriend and me being an ENFP (dating/relationships).
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Turns you into artwork. So fun they should be illegal. Tackles problems and makes your life a thousand times easier. Tells it like it is, then makes it better. You may get whiplash trying to keep track of them.
Extremely self-sufficient and capable. The absolute chillest of the chill. Kind of like an encyclopedia, but a fun one you can take on adventures. Has a tendency to disappear for days or weeks at a time. If disappearing episodes are restricted, grumpiness levels rise. Is hard-pressed to commit to literally anything. Shakes the foundation of your worldview in an affirming way. A lot of unresolved existential dread.
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Basically a walking affirmation machine. Excellent at talking to anyone. Wise oracle sent from the future to help you sort out your issues. Tries to make you grow into the best version of yourself when you just want to sit on the couch and watch TV. Has read every book on the planet and can summarize them for you concisely.
Can switch from intelligently discussing rocket science to reiki in seconds. Knows the secrets of life, the Universe and everything probably. Not as cuddly as one would hope. Inspires you to become the best version of yourself.
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Unexpectedly fun at parties. Genuinely motivated to see you thrive in all areas of your life and works relentlessly to make this happen. Expects you to concede to their standards, some of which are just plain weird. Like a nicer version of your parents. Goes to the end of the earth to make you happy and comfortable. The human embodiment of a warm fireplace on a cold winter night. Favorite household chore is sweeping issues under the rug.
Your actual parents will love them. An unprecedented mix of fun and responsible. Massive hit at dinner parties. Invests in your relationship like a nerd with a bitcoin account in You must commit the next years of your life to them on the first date. Has been an adult since before they learned to walk.
Does anything to provide for the people they love. Incredibly stable and grounded. Will probably do your taxes. So responsible that you feel a little bad about yourself in comparison. Fierce and relentless provider.
[INTP] My INTP boyfriend and me being an ENFP (dating/relationships).
Confidence levels are through the roof, but in a hard-earned and therefore sexy way. Only ever wants socks for Christmas. You speak an entirely different language. Understanding takes time and effort. I agree about Fi and Ti. This causes significant issues between these two types. Also, the INTP doesn't like to repeat themselves.
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They will tend to convey things they care strongly about in rational terms to the ENFP, who is unlikely to understand what is important to the INTP, as they are likely to only hear those things related in an emotionally stirring way. In time, this is likely to be extremely frustrating to an INTP who will probably feel unheard.
The ENFP may feel ignored if texts or emails go unanswered. The INTP is likely to feel overwhelmed by all the communication, and will begin to desperately crave some rationale, like oxygen.
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Given that the INTP likes their space and freedom, in time it's unlikely that they'll like these emotions and responsibilities being cast upon them almost without their consent. I'm not saying it cannot work, as there are many good things about this interaction, however the communication issues are very real. Originally Posted by Cheveyo. Yeah I think you probably love to talk, whereas he hates it. I bet when you first met you would talk loads. That was his way of learning about you.
Once the learning is done, talking can cease, and existence can peacefully continue for him. I'm at a similar stage with my girlfriend. I'm hardly interested in talking any more and she hates it. My love for her is exactly the same, but she feels like we're just not connecting properly. It totally bamboozles me because I feel absolutely fine about our relationship, yet she feels as if it's gone awkward and stale at times.
I don't get it at all and I just wish she'd get on with her own thing without requiring me to give some kind of vocal input every second. She's ENTP, so maybe reasonably similar to you in terms of the need to communicate. Or maybe she's worse because she has this need for talking and activity, yet she's only satisfied if it has some kind of learning, inspirational or motivational outcome to it.