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If the average guy was being honest with himself he'd admit that teenage girls are the hottest girls around.
Im 16 and im dating a 19 year old. do you think thats ok?
But if it's not legal then yeah that's a huge problem. I mean I had friends that were in highschool, he was a senior and he dated a freshmen and they ended up dating for 4 years before getting married so the circumstances wasn't weird for them. Actually we started dating when i was 17 and she was and then i was 18 when she was Sure we got lots of people making jokes on us and we had to be careful about her parents and what not but really it did not effect like at all.
We were just goo goo over each other and it really did not matter. Talk to her brother and see how he feels about it. If you show good intentions and won over his trust then maybe things will go easier on that front. On the other hand don't worry about age, when you get older years age difference is very common at least what I've seen and no one has an issue with it. Society has placed a set of guidelines over younger people to "protect" the young people from things like this but I see it as no problem as long as you're not crossing any boundaries.
It's legal, who's gives a shit. As long as you're mentally at a similar level, relax.
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I don't think it's that weird. A little unconventional but don't let that scare you. I say go for it and fuck anyone who thinks it's wrong. It's none of their business.
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I think it would be weird if she had JUST turned 16, like, yesterday, and you were gonna turn 20 tomorrow. Otherwise it doesn't seem that weird. Anyway, if you can remain friends until you're both of age, maybe you can pursue a relationship then, based on your successful friendship. Spending any significant time together is going to be difficult under those circumstances, because everyone is going to question your intentions.
But, if you can hold out and begin a relationship later, when it's more "appropriate," no one will give a shit. For instance, I'm 8 years older than my wife. When we first met I was 26 and she was That would have been weird. We got back in touch via the internet at 32 and 24 respectively, and there was nothing weird about that.
It's all about timing, man.
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You're a different person at 16 than you are 18 than you are at If you begin a relationship now, not only will it be considered inappropriate by everyone surrounding your lives family, friends, etc. It's more the college kid dating a high school sophomore thing that makes it weird rather than just the age difference. I think it's possibly just OK if she's very mature for her age. It would definitely be wise to wait until she's older though.
It's not like you're forty.
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My granddad was 20 and my granny 15 when they met. Age of consent may be 16 where you live, but the key issue isn't her consent.. Anyways, I think it's strange, but the age difference is only 3 years. Frankly I don't understand the idea of dating someone that you're not interested in sexually, but hey, it's your life, and that does make things easier. It's not weird because of age of consent thing or she's too young.
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Honestly speaking you've got a lot of things not in your favor: Your relationship may not actually be legal depending where you live. Look into age of consent laws and the maximum difference between ages you're allowed to have. Tinder is an app intended to streamline getting sex which I'm sure you're aware of.
If you're not then you should be aware that that was why he was on there.
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You don't use tinder to make friends, you use tinder to find people to sleep with. I'd take the comment "I was just looking for friends" with a big grain of salt. At 16 and 19 you're going to be going through two similar but very different maturation processes. Emotionally he may be well ahead of you or behind you.
Thinking you're on the same page with a guy you don't really know that well would be a dangerous assumption for you to make. In a similar vein, depending where you live, the age at which you can go out to bars may be very different. Is he a manipulator and can't find a girl his age to control because they're too independent?
Does he try to isolate you, keep you from your friends, parents, activities you enjoy? Even a little bit? Is he just immature for 19? Guys don't become who they are more than likely going to grow up to be until after age 23 or Depending on the involvement of their parents and their upbringing, some much later than that, if ever. Is his motivation to get close to you the act of sex? It's not love for most guys. They know how to play it, even if it's not a conscious thought.
They use "love" to get what they physically desire-sex. Girls are in "love", and go along with sex to get the closeness they desire. Everyone feels they are special, they are different and it won't be like that for them. But the fact is, most situations are the same.
When the guy dumps them or tells all to his friends and they talk about her behind her back and he spreads her reputation around, that's when the girls feel the abandonment and lack of self respect, when it's too late. Hopefully, you have enough wisdom, maturity and patience to accept it. Have a daily relationship with God, with prayer and Bible study. That will do the most to keep you on the right track and be patient. Some day you will find the right person. Not the 3 yr age difference but the legal one. Just imagine how much trouble he could get into if someone found out that the two of you were having sex if you are.
Your parents or any concerned adult could press charges against him or charges could be brought against him by the state depending on where you live. Some states recoginze you as an adult when you are I would check into these things because if he gets in trouble then he will be labeled as a sex offender for the rest of his life. Just lumped in with the real predators and sex offenders. For his sake I would take some time and cool it until you are of age. I am sure that this is not what you wanted to hear but I hope it helps.
It really depends on where you live.