- Episode #4: The Private Man Interview
- Episode #4: The Private Man Interview
- 15 Replies to “Episode #4: The Private Man Interview”
When it comes to sex, marriage and dating behavior, there is really no difference between Christian girls and their secular sisters. Christian women are every bit as hypergamous, fickle, flaky and shallow as the unchurched girls I have known since my teenage years 30 years ago. Discard and reject the American media myths of natural female monogamy, female inherent morality and virtue, and pedestalization. Women are just as fallen as men are. They are just as sinful and corruptible as men are. Women are not inherently more moral or virtuous simply because they have vaginas.
Learn and understand basic female psychology and evolutionary biology.
Episode #4: The Private Man Interview
Learn the female biological imperative to mate with the best men she can find so as to give birth to the strongest children most likely to survive. Hypergamy is designed to fulfill this imperative. This is deeply ingrained and does not disappear merely because a girl is churched. Unmoored from social or moral constraints, a woman will do anything to satisfy this imperative, including marrying a beta to secure his resources, and having sex with alphas to secure their semen for impregnation. Learn the female indicators of interest, or IOIs.
Learn about the female rationalization hamster. Learn about how women default to emotion and feelings for decisionmaking, instead of the usual male reliance on logic and reason. This is not female bashing. This is a reasonable and honest appraisal of the world in which we live today and the SMP that Giovanni faces. This blog is not unparalleled. I recommend Hooking Up Smart over this, frankly, because she offers true advice on female psychology without defaulting to the harmful ideas that women need to be pushed and ruled. Your frame is all wrong and I reject it out of hand as false and not based in fact.
You are descrbing a domineering man, not a dominant man. There is a dfference. You have much to learn, young Jennifer. You may object to it, but it works. It is instead a provision of leadership, security and protection that women crave.
Episode #4: The Private Man Interview
A dominant frame means he makes decisions and says if the woman wants to go along, she can. He leads her where he wants her to go and if she goes, fine. I just wanted to express it in terms you and I both understand, and relate to. A dominant man takes charge and leads. A domineering man is demanding, arrogant, churlish and unpleasant. A dominant man protects and leads those under his charge. A dominant man commands respect by his mien and bearing, and his wife and children are safe and secure with him.
A domineering man gets no true respect, only superficial submission, and his wife and children secretly hate and fear him behind his back. It appears to me the manosphere does not advocate for male domineering. It seeks, and celebrates, male dominance. So much of this comes down to semantics. Control the vocabulary, control the debate.
Fact is, the first four traits you mentioned are universally attractive to women, but some of the things you mention are too strong for others; women differ after those first four traits and so do men, which is why game advice on different sites begins differing in various ways. People even have different feelings and occasionally definitions about what exactly alphas and betas are and do.
The fact is that all women who want a man want a strong man, to protect and secure; this is all true. Then when it comes to individual relationships, other details differ from couple to couple. The extent of some of the advice is ridiculous; this is what I was referring to. It can slide easily from reasonable to silly. And you can have the last word. Btw, I hope things are going ok for you. Just wanted to let you know. Thanks Jennifer, but you and I are not going to have that exchange on this board.
I want my nice guy! And any man speaking out about their hypocrisy, was a misogynist, hater of women who deserved to be relationally aggressed against. I took the red pill a long time ago, but and this is only my opinion I find that most women are not worth getting to know at length. The first few minutes of conversation are usually enough to establish their interest in justice, philosophy and civil rights. And even the good ones get turned bad by being around the bad ones.
Of course, women lead too in more subtle ways; guys usually make the direct initiatives, while women make the more subtle initiatives of flirting. The definition of dominance can take a wide spectrum of range, though in many cases, the definition given is far from nebulous.
15 Replies to “Episode #4: The Private Man Interview”
I suppose the same goes if you are a liberal. It seems the only time women get angry about relationships is when they see how casual sex has somehow damaged them. I think keeping my unit in my pants, is a lot less effort than that. But for me, no sex before marriage. Believe it, men like me exist. And we have standards. Driving us away by saying we are oh-so-horrible and liars , means you are driving women into the hands of players.
Who are you addressing, Ray? What in hell are you talking about? I know for a fact that there are good virgin men and women; yes, you exist, yay for you. One follows the other, unfortunately. Did you read that above? Or are you planning to set me up with your friends? Amazing, a woman with friends who are also virgins!
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I commend your restraint. The proof will be provided, when it is asked for. Your concern is pretty amazing considering the firsthand relationship devastation you see around you. So my true love, can wait for me, and I, can wait for the marriage. And have sex after. You two may not know until the wedding night; THEN it may be obvious: I appreciate your diligence in wishing to give your lady proof of your own virtue; you are indeed a man of high standards.
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No wonder, my motives seemed muddled. That is why I have concern, in fact. Yet another thing to keep in mind I guess.