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It's time for the Best Post Contest! Vote by Fantastic flag! Create a category, make a post, join the fun! I would like an asian girlfriend February 26, 1: Specifically Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese and Chinese. I am a member of the regular dating sites okcupid, eharmony and chemistry, but I am not having a lot of luck finding my true love. I hope this post does not come off racist.
I really dont know why I think Asian grils are so beautiful but I do. I would love to find my soulmate and settle down. No I am not looking to rush into anything. I am on the regular dating sites and I come across asian girls every now and again but not frequently. I dont wish to sign up for one of those import a wife programs. I have no problems getting dates in general. I am handsome, have a great career, I am romantic and very charming.
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I live in Colorado now, which I think is one of my main problems, since Colorado is pretty darn white. Does anyone have any hints, experiences, stories, advice etc. There are lots of girls here who want a "white" boyfriend, especially if you are handsome, romantic, and charming as you say. However, there are also an increasing number of girls like me, who find it an immediate turn off to know that my date is interested only in Asian girls. As a caucasian US citizen currently living in Asia, who has no particular bias toward or against Asian women— all joking and judgment aside, you could do yourself a huge service by moving to southern or central California.
Loads of Asian and mixed-Asian girls there, with significantly less hassle and cultural issues than moving yourself to Asia. I find the white-boyfriend-seeking behaviour I run into on a nearly daily basis to be a big turnoff, so I fully understand the comments from women in this thread. If you just want to castigate the poster, move on. Have you seen these? There's also some self identity issues here: For advice on finding Asians to date. I love asian girls: For reading comments about why it's ok to prefer certain physical attributes.
The thing about wooing the ladyfolk is that you have to be genuinely interested in her as a person. So, yes, you are free to have a type - and a lot of us do - but you need to develop this further into shared interests, shared goals, that kind of thing. He is a big white guy who always had lots of Asian friends. Don't put women or yourself on a pedestal, and perhaps you will have a change in your luck.
I agree with other commenters that it is okay to have preferences when it comes to physical attraction I certainly have my own but I have found that when you get into that sort of "X group is the be all, end all, best and I only want them" mode people notice that and may question your motives.
Other commenters will likely remind you of this, but I think your goal should be to seek out women base on personality, heart, shared interests, and general compatibility FIRST, just on the off chance that Asian women are looking at you as just another white guy that fetishizes their existence. The suggestion of moving to California is a good one. Irvine, San Diego, and Los Angeles college areas are ideal if you're a something with the preferences you have. Best thing about OKC: Look at your top matches. Look at why they are your top matches.
Look at common linkages between them. You'll then have the ability to make a more all-encompassing list than merely the physical and I traditionally dated large breasted women, so I get the physical attraction thing. It's just not all there is. When you can apply that larger list of likes you can work out where those type of people hang out.
Go there, hang out, chat people up. Sooner or later you'll get dates with awesome people. Sometimes people who like Asians seem to have a thing for the cultural submissiveness.
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I'd check for that in my top matches if it's something you suspect about yourself. Are you into Asian culture at all? Since many people get set up by friends, maybe you'll meet a potential soulmate through a friend As an Asian-American female, I'd find it hella creepy that this white guy, though charming and handsome, was volunteering at the film festival box office just so he could meet Asian girls.
You could move to China and have a Chinese girlfriend within a week.
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I see even un-handsome, un-charming white guys with Chinese girlfriends all the time. If you're serious about this and have the qualifications, go teach english in Korea for a year. Every one of my guy friends who went came back with a girlfriend. Someone I know ended up getting married and staying in Korea. I think he even met her on an online dating site over there. Moving somewhere where there are more Asian women would certainly improve your chances of meeting women you find attractive and interesting who find you attractive and interesting. Attraction is not a moral act, no matter how racist that small part of your brain that determines attraction is, that doesn't make you a bad person.
How you handle it however, very much can. Your question reads like you don't have very much serious experience with relationships and so I'd encourage you to listen to the other posters here telling you how attraction is only one of the many necessary aspects of a good relationship. All of the white guys I've known with Asian fetishes ended up having very superficial, often drama-ridden relationships with the Asian women they dated.
I'm mostly talking about Caucasian guys who almost exclusively dated Asian American women. The problem is the Asian fetishists I've known usually had very little in common with their girlfriends. I'm sure these guys could have found Asian women willing to date them who were compatible with them, but it was like they didn't even think in those terms.
Although I personally find Asian fetishists creepy, I don't have a moral problem with them. But I think for their own sake and the sake of the women they get involved with many of them could benefit from developing an appreciation of deeper traits. My top advice would be to try to keep it to yourself. When you find the chicks that strike your fancy, approach them as individuals.
Nobody gets in trouble for only trying to contact blondes, or women with larger boobs, or who are thin, or whatever. But especially at the start you don't tell the woman "oh, you have quality X , I love that" or "I was attracted to you because of quality X ".
Every single one is an individual who you may or may not hit it off with, and the fact that quality X turns you on and those women are the ones you want to meet, it needs to be your private thang. The advice about moving - yeah, I guess if you are located where the women do not have quality X , what the hell are you going to do? And as timsneezed says above, be really careful to actually like the person.
But you want a relationship with a girl who you like and who likes you and who, preferably, is Asian - you don't want a relationship with an Asian girl. I think there are a couple of important differences here. I wouldn't personally be offended if I found out a guy I was dating had a thing for blondes. But being blonde is just one physical attribute. Your ethnic makeup in some ways defines a lot of your appearance.
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So if you find out you're dating someone who fetishizes your ethnicity, there's the sense that your ethnic makeup might be most or all of what they care about. And Siouxsie, of course! Words she lives by: Cuong , who describes himself as witty, confident and genuine, says his greatest accomplishment is founding Tennis Hope, a nonprofit organization that promotes youth development and diversity within the Denver tennis community. Cuong attended the University of Colorado at Boulder and works as a systems administrator. We must to do this again soon! Qualities that attract her to other people: Indecisiveness, laziness and closed-minded.
My family, especially my nieces and nephew. My own quote I made up and live by today: That way you can embrace life fearlessly. Jonathan considers his position as a tennis coach a unique achievement. A graduate of University of Colorado at Boulder, Jonathan was able to adapt to any circumstances thrown at him in college, a trait he found very valuable.
Confidence, selflessness, sense of adventure and most importantly a sense of humor Dislikes: Playing tennis keeps me sane. A graduate of University of Colorado at Boulder, Jessica says that being well-rounded during her college career was a valuable experience. She was always involved in multiple organizations and athletics, and worked throughout college.
Good sense of humor, drive, ambition and someone who is genuine Dislikes: Arrogance and ignorance Words she lives by: Steve , who describes himself as responsible, fun and hardworking, says his greatest accomplishment is getting his engineering degree from University of Colorado at Denver, which he achieved by paying his way through college, studying hard and maintaining determination.
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In his free time, Steve jogs, swims and hikes. He also enjoys watching movies and TV shows, playing games, hanging out with friends, listening to music, drinking and cooking. An Italian food lover, Steve says his perfect date would simply be dinner and a movie. People who are independent and can take care of themselves Dislikes: I seem to be listening to music throughout my day and sometimes even to help me go to bed.
A graduate of University of Colorado at Boulder with a degree in accounting, Dennis found meeting friends throughout college valuable because they eventually became his family. He also learned to chase his dreams. His favorite activities include golfing, snowboarding, camping and fishing.
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