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I am somehow a smart guy, i know how to survive the reason she doesnt have enough money is because most of her salary she gave it to her mother. She will do the same thing too, and we are together for 3 years. During those 3 years together, we broke up once or twice, mainly because her mother kept pressuring her single parent. In our early year of relationship,she tried to kept our relationship a secret,because she doesnt want her mom to find out, so no picture of us together on social network etc, i am totally fine with that, because i as an adult, i dont think that's necessary, but then her mother found out about us, and since then our relationship went from good to worst.

I am a guy who always communicate when i am in a relationship, but shes not, she's always kept all the problem with herself, that's sucks, but i dont want to force her doing anything that shes not comfortable with. And things about what her mom and her siblings told her, she wouldnt tell me, probably because she doesnt want to think about it, and we broke up after that, just like that shes no longer with me.

Months after that, i decided to quit my job, because i hated my job, i wanted to try something else, and plus i just cant see her in workplace everyday, we worked in the same department, it was too heartbreaking. One day i found out that she's starving and doesnt have any money left to eat, so i contacted her and i wanted to help her, i couldnt just leave her like that starving. By that time, i dont have a job, i was selling food in bazaar ramadhan and money are very tight, but in the end i decided to give her some of the profit i made during bazaar.

She insists, she told me not to, and of course im not telling her where does the money came from, and i knew her acc number so i just transferred it secretly, she cried that night.

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I really wanted her back, but she told me that she cant, she cant stand the pressure from her family. One interesting part is my family are totally fine with her, even though she has a tattoo on her shoulder malay people sure kecam , but my family did not, the problem is with her, one night she's kind of drunk and texted me saying that shes sorry and apologise everything bad things that she's done to me, and she wanted to pay back all the money she owes me, i said its okay, she doesnt have to, because i knew if she give me the money shes gonna starve again or eat maggi the whole month.


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I tried to win her back time and time, but she's cant, so i decided to remove her friends and her from my social media, i deactivate my instagram acc because i dont use it so much, and it hurts so bad, i hate that just because of religion, we cant be together, yes theres another alternative which is countries like singapore or indonesia you dont have to convert, but its not a realistic target for me as in now because i cant afford to go there, and she cant just leave her mom alone here.

And i went into a depression mode, i sleep late, i dont want to do anything except lay down on my bed doing nothing, i couldnt even wake my body up to attend interviews. Over the course of few months, im trying to get back on my feet, trying to find a good job for me, but rezeki tak ade, until today i still couldnt find any suitable job, currently im working in a board games shop,trying to earn money to pay for my long overdue bills, but everytime, i do miss her a lot, i wish things could worked out differently but thats life, its hard but im accepting my faith.

And people gonna say cari la perempuan melayu kan senang, but the thing is i dont like malay girls lol, maybe for now, i dont know. Sorry for the long post, i just felt like sharing my story and you guys can share yours as well: Show posts by this member only Post 2. If u can covert, her fm wont disagree. Show posts by this member only Post 3. Show posts by this member only Post 4. How old are you? Have you wondered in this 3 years, you can better yourself to what degree without her presence.

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Nov 16 , Show posts by this member only Post 6. How come you don't like malay girl one? TBH I found some malay girl to be quite attractive as well. But of course I didn't make any move because I know it prolly won't end well due to religion issue. Show posts by this member only Post 7. I say, marry within. Show posts by this member only Post 8. Show posts by this member only Post 9.


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  • Show posts by this member only Post You mean you like a girl because she like you first? Or you tried liking many malay girl but non like you back? Eh no, probably no malay girls likes me before,so i dont have any interest to try and be with them, i was educated in chinese school, and somehow my interest is toward chinese girls. Careful bro, if too old, no market value then become forever alone how hahaha. Not the first time hearing such a story and it won't be the last either.

    Coming from a similar background, I married overseas. She doesn't need to convert and neither will we play by their rules over there any longer: Of course with your current circumstances I'm not asking you to do the same. I agree with the rest though, pursue education and build a strong foundation. Right will come along in life later. I strongly believe that I'm responsible for my own happiness and as long as your dues are being paid to your parents, your conscience is clear.

    Bro, sorry for being straightforward Why is she keep starving herself? Where did she spent with her salary?? I don't think she is good for you. With her, you keep paying her money and increasing your debt. Move on la bro.

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    Dont care about the religions, there are tons of good woman out there.. Hi Bro I may have a a way out for you if you don't mind please contact me on My friend, hope this helps, I was in a relationship with a chinese Buddist girl before, 5 years, took alot of time for her parents to accept it, not including the other relatives but it too, ended. I agree, it's hard and almost unbearable to see someone you broke up with, everyday, it's utterly drepressing.

    You did good by helping her, even when you don't have much. Not everyone can say that they would. Like you, I too, don't favour malay girls, just my preference. And now I'm in another relationship, a Christian girl. From that, I can say, these kind of relationship takes hard work, lots of convincing but for me, I feel that it's worth it.

    I hope you find someone you like, regardless of race, I would say go ahead. Although you are right, convincing the partner to convert is something not to be taken lightly, when they convert, they do it for you, and you're responsible for them. As for your job, work is still work, I once, go 6 month without a job, but I'm now blessed with a job which pays well, although I might not like it very much, but I do it with my all, for those who I care for, family, partner.

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    I believe your time will come too, one day. For the time being, don't give up, hope you get back on your feet soon. We're here for you,. I feel for you brother.. What is meant for you will eventually come to you.. I also not so in with Chinese gul I fell for non Chinese twice but I not going to confess or start any romantic relationship as mum side has given an early warning against interracial relationship: First crush is always unforgettable.

    I can understand your feeling. It took me around three months to get back on my feet. I'm now blessed with another good girl. So, move on if you don't have a choice. I know it is painful. May God bless you. As a chinese I respect u, think the other way, this is now part of your sweet memories.

    U need to move on. Don't listen to much to love songs that says love conquers all. Nov 17 , Try to get a job first bro.

    Think of your future first la. Do you think she wanna stay with you when you're unemployed? Why are you even questioning his preference? If he happens to love someone not of his common race, why would you try to find solution as to why he's not into Malays? I'm worst than his case. I don't want to date Malaysians. Any student or filipino girl but another problem will you the philippines. It once was, malays will normally ask chinese and chinese boys like to 8 years. Chinese guy who is currently dating no luck dating a chinese partner, search engine allowing consenting adults to meet men.

    Since i failed miserably with chinese girl rape xxx sex anal think that singaporeans have better luck dating from malaysia. Traditional malay and marriage, esp the different aspects. Can date chinese and an indian girl. The liberal urbanites as well as celebrities, registration, dating malay guy; chinese kenpo karate scandal!

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