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With that being said, I have a friend here in Vietnam who is on the heavy side. He is doing totally alright with the ladies and has new dates every week. That will give you a good sense how good your dating opportunities will be in Vietnam. I have been talking to a Vietnamese woman online for months now. We now text video call talk everyday and laugh at each other.
I am going to Vietnam soon for our first meet. She is taking a week off work to show me around and wants me to meet her daughter. She is a career woman and is not going anywhere, so I have no concerned regarding her intentions. She is very honest so far and even said when we spend time together being a man you should take the lead. Any advice on the week ahead.?
Your thoughts would be appreciated. First, thanks for your comment. From the looks of it, things seems to be going great. But keep an eye out for red flags, for example if she brings up the topic of money a lot, or is pushy about moving to your country. The girls here do expect you to lead. Make the final decision after listening to her opinions. Viet girls are totally ok holding hands in public.
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Though public kissing are usually not ok for the more traditional girls. To be on the safe side, try ta get the first kiss in a more more secluded area. Hope it will help. And do post an update here later! Andy, Update for you.
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My week went well. We were holding hands by the second day. Kisses by the third and the rest by the 4th. Which surprised me, As she originally said that can only do that if she is in love with that person. We got on so well, had two days spending with the daughter too.
She took me to the airport and hug and kissed me goodbye. This time for 10 days. She has also suggested that when her sister moves out that I can use her Spare room in the new year.
I just hope she has the will power not to give in. I retire in ten years but can do it in 5 but pension would be halved. She likes a man with a little belly and want me to put on little weight. Lol never heard that before, that be difficult as I like to keep fit and eat healthy. Sounds like things went great. Just ignore it, since it can be a way to see if she can control you. Just continue hitting the gym and eat healthy like before. Like I wrote in this article, I recommend Vietnam Cupid. I was wondering if you happen to know anything about gay dating in VN.
I have been talking to a girl in VN for a few weeks now and she has mentioned that she plans to move to the US in the next year because she wants to live a normal life with her wife one day. Any advice is very welcome! No, I have no experience about the gay dating scene here in Vietnam. And yeah, in a country like Vietnam where the family is so very important, not having a good relationship with your parents is a huge red flag. However, in this particular case it could be because she is gay. To know for sure, you guys should meet up to see if things click.
And they must be taken seriously!
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Though at this point I am too old to impress just about any lady, much less a young lady even though a pretty lady has always been in my eye. Your article is great! I love Viet girls but the dating culture here is way too slow. I move pretty quickly and expect more casual dating…something that is better in Thailand or the Philippines. Another thing is the motive of these girls to chase foreigners.
I had one girl kept fixating on the UK and only insisted on meeting guys from England. I had another try and extract info from me on where her kid can get free education abroad in EU or America while we were having drinks.
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Vietnam is the right place if you want a great girl for a long term relationship. However they should be easy to filter out after just one date. Where do you meet these girls? Tinder and the clubs seem to be where most of them hang out. Normal Viet girls are totally fine with just cheap coffee dates.
Women love men who have strong resolve and belief in their cultures. Just a tip here: There are lots of cultural differences here. Some offending things in America might not apply here and vice versa. On the other hand, you should also introduce her to your parents. In the typical Vietnamese culture, the man is the provider of the house though it changes every time and varies from family to family. Just be thoughtful and gentle. Strong relationships are built in sharing common interests. You should also show respect for her beliefs, ideas, and hobbies.
Make sure that the girl feels included in your company. Some men fail to do this and make their prospective partner feel outcasted or even disrespected in the company of their friends.
The cultural differences might inadvertently send disrespectful gestures. Motorbikes are the common means of transportation here in Vietnam. This will show how caring you are as a man. If the woman declines, which rarely happens, insist again and make sure to be of help.
Women appreciate this move and will really add leverage on your dating. American humor is way different with Asian jokes. Unless the girl is fluent in English and can understand even the slightest nuances, you should reserve your puns in the future. Viet girls would likely resort to slapstick jokes and make sure to laugh at them as real as you can.
But the catch here is that you should also make her laugh. Trust me, good humor outshines good looks almost all the time. Vietnamese locals are known for being straightforward. Parents only want the best for their children and in Asia where family always come first, such questions are normal. This is just a matter of cultural difference and you should just show how sincere you are. Be an interesting conversationalist I think all women love men who can carry sensible conversations.
Always let the girl talk first, entertain her ideas, and laugh at her jokes. Make this a way to get to know each other well. Just keep the scene cool but warm. Dating a Vietnamese woman is a tender and romantic event that can happen in your Vietnam visit. If you need to go back to the U.
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Leave all your means of contact and make sure to call her the minute you arrive home. There are lots of best boutique hotels in Hanoi that you can …. If you had visited here …. Good article and I am dating a Vietnamese woman but have done many stupid mistakes. She is now giving me a second chance to prove to her that I am not always a dummy, I am also older then her, have met her family and I live permanently in Vietnam.